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Fucking a 25 year old is just fucking. Sorry that happened to you. There were so many people i know who ended up getting divorces at your age because of cheating. Mostly the male partner cheated but in some cases it was the woman. I feel like when we reach 50, it is a time for change kind of a shake up time. Time to get rid of friends who do no help us in life. Maybe changing things about ourselves or changing our profession. Some people use this time of upheaval to get better like eating better or getting rid of what is not serving us.
Now the other half decide to have a mid life crisis. They try to cling to their youth or they fill like they have missed out on something or they think that their spouse no longer is what they want. As weird as it sounds, try not to take what your husband did personal.
Of course, it is personal but when he did that he was only thinking of himself. It had nothing to do with how pretty you are or how valuable you are but he went his base urges. Not a younger woman but in his mind a woman of more status.
When she confronted him on the cheating he threw it back on her like you are fat etc. She was 52 at the time. She ended leaving him and really had no shortage of men who came her way. Right after she left him she ended up having a short fling with a 32 year old which started out as a hook up kind of thing but he ended up sort of learning some grown up skills from her.
She was really embarrassed about the relationship because of the age difference but I told her know ones cares. It is remarkably common. Most likely you will need a bit of therapy to get over the betrayal and a good divorce support group might help. You might look at a site called Meetup. It is not a singles site but an interest meetup site. Everything from knitting to dancing meetups.
I joke that you could probably find a meetup on there for tearing paper because there are so many types of meetups and you can even start your own. No, physical impossibility……. men want youth and beauty. All you old crows made your choices…. live with them. Jim You are a nasty person who no woman worth anything would want.
Old men who date young girls delude themselves into thinking the girls really want them. They think they look way better than they actually look almost always , when in fact they are not attractive sometimes balding, potbellied, and wrinkly. What the want is a daddy figure or money, or maybe a short fling with someone until they find a younger man. There is simply no way that a woman in her 50s is as sexy as a woman in her 20s unless the woman in her 50s is very fit, classy, and has good genetics and the woman in her 20s is obese or disfigured in some way.
I work out and eat right. I take care of myself and value health. I deserve passion and adventure! I was married to a younger man. I already have another man wanting a serious relationship with me who is 10 years younger than me. But that scares me since he has a young child.
Be confident and take charge of your own destiny. I am so excited to finally be free! Women and men take care of your body and it will reward you in ways you never imagined. And to thine own self be true!
But I was never one to really be shallow. She loves me, she takes care of me as I take care of her, her heart is true and faithful and that is really what is most important. And I have always found a good degree of intelligence to be rather hot bc if looks is all she has to offer, the lust will soon die and you will wake up one day thinking you been eating Ritz crackers to find you just been having plain old saltines.
Oh, Taxmeless, help this girl to get her own act together..!!! No one is to support, no one is to guide, or even to listen…. that only comes with an age! Dave You know I guess I have a different attitude than a lot of older men. We probably all need to feel loved a appreciated by someone whether it is someone our age or someone younger or even older.
I can be attracted to someone younger than me or someone close to my age or older if the chemistry is right but I want it to be real not just about sex. I know when I was young the driving factor was someone that appealed to me but might not have been serious about a relationship but I passed through that period and wanted a serious meaningful union.
I remember while on a business trip I had a encounter with an attractive woman who wanted to be more than friends. I had two children so we attempted to get beyond this but she ended up leaving after 27 yeas of marriage. I really want to have a loving connection with the person I am involved with.
I might be able to have that connection with a much younger person but I know that is not practical. I think a connection with someone a little younger, my age or even older is more realistic. I still see my ex at family functions and she has remarried. Maybe she found what she had was a lot better than she realized. Any way this is my opinion a sexual connection with a woman. I am 54 yrs woman, many friends around my age divorce they seen look good and happy with their single life.
old man while they getting older sick and many benefits blah blah. Please when you are getting old in realistic actually women happy and willing to divorce. Please be realistic if you really have someone woman at 50s 60s love you care of you. Guys you are just Lucky. because my ex was the only man in my life after my father. recently I thought to find a companion to hang out, dining out,to travel, someone I can call and talk, go walking, now in my 57, just counting the days when this train stops and I reach to my final destination.
financially stable, 2 lovely big kids, married and unmarried. this is the life, people are different, some when the train stop in a station in the middle of a desert, just stay there, some wait for the next train to get in and continue and feel happiness and love.
Anonymous Dave You know I guess I have a different attitude than a lot of older men. Well let me say one thing eye candy can be your age. And this may come as a shock but you do have many beautiful women yr age who could make yr heart skip a beat.
So good luck and remember we do exist. Beauty is from the inside and shines on the outside. Men still want til very old age so why they try to go as young as possible. Sex is all in the mind. At almost 52 I am still interested in sex and I believe it is necessary to create the bond in a meaningful relationship, which is what I am looking for. I am not looking for just a male friend. We are all here to learn and figure out life.
Be happy that you are now figuring things out …. There always looking for younger woman. I know what you mean. At 51 I dated a 21 year old for about a year and it was so embarrassing when she held my arm walking down the street.
She came after me. You still feel funny and very uncomfortable. Before her my last girlfriend was 18 years younger than me. And I was pursued there again. Given my situation, i found it hard to meet women my own age because I have lived a very hard and unconventional life due to my addiction. I feel like I screwed up my life with drugs and in reality I did. I missed all the good things in life like having a wife,children, a career to be proud of.
My only hope is to live the rest of my life doing the best I can. Who takes care of herself and is still not jaded by life. She could have trust issues. The trick is to be aware of your stuff and not let it get in the way. I know this is long.
Guess i had a lot to say here. Sex after 50 is all about attitude! Started dating after a 25 yr marriage. Not sure what I want beyond companionship and sex, but I am totally open to the possibilities. regardless of erectile ability. Hi Kitty, Thank you for your refreshing and candid comments. Right on! Keep friends. Nurture our community life. Beware of men who openly look at younger women. I am Was married for 32 years to same man for 35 years total.
I was He died 4 years again and I thought I would never have sex again and believe you have to use it or lose it. Dating a younger man because mostly older men want to date because I am still very young looking and in good shape. Also, he would have sex everyday and I have a very high sex drive. So doesnt demand anything from me while I am exploring having a great sex life after it waning years before hubby died.
The stats on being alone as a woman my age I tend to believe. OK but sex is a need for me. I am a 52 year old divorced woman and I understand what you mean. I am disabled but still have wants and needs also.
Mostly looking for a friendship that may turn into more. Not looking for someone to support me. Mainly looking for companionship. And these men are athletic, fit, attractive and successful. Sure, they can date younger women, but many chose to date those closer to their age. Relatable is their reason.
I feel generalization is never accurate. Hi I am Walter 50 single male looking for a nice long term relationship I like cooking walking reading music I am loving caring kind romantic. As a widower at 51 years old I have had a different experience. I do like women my age but it has not been easy I am a fairly good looking man with my act together, financially stable with 24 years of a successful marriage behind me. Women my age want someone to travel with, someone to hang down at block island or the.
One yard. They all seem to be going through a mid life crisis or something. Which means they want endless things to do, go out to dinners literally every weekend, and have to be planning or doing something crazy for every waking moment. They also want younger men. Believe me this is the case! Really, you work hard and play hard at 49? Hey Howie, I am a woman in the same boat!
I am 5 years widowed, but my sons are older. I LOVE my life right now. The wisdom and the possibilities. I have not had a problem finding men who want to have a serious, ongoing relationship with me. I have found there to be plenty of fish. Tho have only dated 2 of them seriously, but really enjoyed them.
I think that a positive and loving attitude and appreciation for the now is so sexy! As is a man who can play guitar! Know how to play and laugh — where ever you are — that is the secret. Sounds like you and I are looking for the same thing. I love to bake, go to the beach, go camping several times a year, dinner with friends, etc… Just normal life stuff.
Where do people like us meet other people like us? I AM the exception. I am 56 look years younger and act even younger , widowed for 4 years, and keep in good shape. I do not have to be wined and dined.
Raised 3 sons all live in another state, so did something right , and consider live life to the fullest as having sex regularly!! Not much of a traveler, introverted and a bit of a homebody. very easy going. Just look foward to owning a cat, you wanted your freedom. If a woman. hasnt got sex appeal, why bother. I can get a dog.. Stay fit. Mentally I am. Try to get into the physical part of the relationship with a delightful woman of the same age but very difficult.
All my sexual desires and fetishes, I only desire to do on younger women early 40s the oldest. A man, lets say 50 and up is no longer desired. Women in their 40s are either going for men their age or taking advantage of their cougarness.
I did not date through separation, the divorce process or after divorce…. the second an attractive drug dealer kidding, a Pharmacist?
in her break up letter stating she was attracted to my handsome first impression, my sensual nature, most fun outgoing gentleman, and best lover in bed she had ever experienced. Greg Stewart, Concord, Ca. Hi Greg…. Kudos to you for even attempting to date women closer to your age. I am 50 and prefer women my age. Where are they? They are not responding to my personal ads, they are not in the meet up groups or volunteer groups, and they are not in the bars.
Can I assume no one wants me? I think it is more that your path has not crossed yet with that woman who is perfect for you. The timing of these things is not always our timing. Just keep on keeping on, have faith, and continue to pursue activities that have meaning for you.
You will meet someone when you least expect it. Because we r sitting here reading posts that say we may as well accept the fact that we are going to be alone the rest of our lives.
I have so much MORE to offer at 53 thatn i did at 33…. but the packaging is older…. and nobody gives me a second thougt! I left a totally dysunctional relationship i tried to keep going for 8 yrs. And he is clean to boot. Signed up on eharmony…. and feel totally pathetic about it. I swore in my 30s…i will never be one of those sad 50somethings looking for a guy…..
but here i am AGAIN. And i feel foolish doing it! My sisters husband of 23yrs dumped her for someone 3 yrs older than their daughter…. That was 15 yrs ago and she never found anyone after that. So to answer your question….. we are everywhere…. but just kind feel a bit foolish admitting it!
My dad is a very supportive and loving father and he is my best friend. Everyone deserve a chance to show who they are and be appreciated despite their age. Celine dion and her husband had a beautiful marriage despite their age difference,marriage is about people and how much they are willing to commit to each other not about age.
There are a lot of lovely ladies of different age group out there,spread your wings,get to know people. You may never know where you might end up finding ur happiness. As for me and my partner we are going to have children together within the next two years,he is a great father to his children so I have no doubt he will be a good father and he is going to make an incredible,extraordinary,super excellent husband.
I am done-zo with competition and way overdue to be the icing. My advice? Let them take up knitting or something. And sometimes the women are worst then the men. Most of them have been cheated on or lied to. I agree, Greg I do think its awesome you do want someone close to your age.
I am a 51 divorcee and just beginning to think about dating. Your gal is out there so keep looking! I am a responsible Man. i enjoy my job and I strive for success in everything I do. I am a fun loving man, jovial, lovely and passionate. I think of myself as being clever but harmless. I am supporting, caring and have a loyal and tolerant character, humble, honest, understanding and truthful. com skype ID ellisonsmith01 i hope to hear from you.
I have had plenty from 23 to 39, really? I still think at my age I have a lot of love to give. Where am I going wrong? I call us men that date their age , the real men.
The best is to make do of whats available at hand. Its more fun with someone close your age, because communication and understanding will be easier. I wish this meme would die. Greg, Your story could have been mine, except I am female, and I have been divorced 15 years. The stories have replayed over the years, and I have come to question if I am ever to find a partner to grow old with, as it seems that I am already doing that!
But for a marriage that ended in tears, it had many good years that unfortunately could not be salvaged. I still believe in marriage and believe that men and women are meant to live in harmonious relationships. Best of luck to you on finding someone with whom to share your life! happy new year Welcome my dear I will want us to friends. My name is Crystal I have very important issue to discuss with you. Write me back if you are interested,Thanks. I seem to attract the kind of guy that likes my free-spiritedness yet are often the types to start clipping my wings as soon as my attention is elsewhere.
I never ever thought ageism would be an issue, I thought it was an imagined thing. I still believe, however, in my weird optimism that out there is someone for me…someone at a similar age who can appreciate me and whom I can appreciate.
Thanks Linda for this article. Brilliant and I can relate so much to you. you are not doing anything wrong. its just biology. men are attracted to youth and beauty in women like women are attracted to status and resources in men. Women when they get older start to lose what men are attracted to.
If men are not physically attracted to you then they will not pursue you. Women are also attracted to looks. Young Women are not designed to be attracted to infertile old men. im 51 and also look around 12 years younger than my real age. so does it mean that even tho i am. pretty attractive because I am older men may not pursue me..? I agree, RP. I have been online dating in my own age group.
Most women my age are not sexually attractive, youth, excitability and plump skin is sexy. However those few women that have got it are naturally very selective and sought after. I am not looking for a physical relationship with 50 somethings yes I get wood though the ladies would like physical sex. Well…i am a married man of 54 years looking for 60 and 70 year old pretty women thst want a nice sexy relationship….
Brig you might try dating a few men who are just a bit younger since you say you look younger. I not talking really young but maybe mid to late 40s or early 50s. My dad was that way. I am always amazed that people do not understand. Men your age use myself as an example are still very horny … women my age post menopause are no longer interested in a sexual loving relationship — they are done with sex.
Women are done at men around … so it make sense for a man to go for a yr younger women. No thanks. Your are an idiot for generalizing. So get over yourself. It is just stats. Most women lose their libido as well as men approaching 50, sometimes weight issue or health in general. I did not late husband did and had an increasing sex drive at 50 and am 56 now fully menopausal. just depends…was worried when I was widowed at 52 that I wouldnt find someone my age or even older to have sex as often as I would like.
found someone younger to have sex with to not lose it, got to use it or lose as a older woman!!! Open to man closer to my age to have a relationship ship but not just as a companion. But, dating has been very challenging. Dating sites have totally taken my self esteem away as well as my self confidence. Turn it around and interview them. Your the man it is your job to interview not the irrational women. Good grammar will take you far. Even with the young gals….
maybe especially. Trust me. You actually know of a rational woman! The ignorance and arrogance within some people causes them to stereotype others. Best to avoid them. It may well be that friendship first is a good rule, not having expectations for effort and not being used for validation allows you to set your value. It is you that matters and how you behave that gives you pride in yourself — what missing part of you will be completed by dating or a relationship maybe address that first. Too bad you and I live on opposite coasts!
The problem with men is they look for beauty on the outside. Maybe if more men would look there non of us would be alone in our 50s. Double bingo!! And even if you find someone that wants to date you , after one date they already start implying sexual stuff.
That takes time. I will need to develop feelings for you. Is that too much to ask for? To have feelings before you get all touchy feely with me? Many women have wonderful personalities and beautiful hearts. Some just look at pictures and move on, they never read my profile. So it happens , to both men and women who would give per cent each.
I wished a lady would take time to read about me markww2 on pof in Houston. You go guuuurl! Ever heard of a spellcheck!? I get feeling you will be alone for a very long time.
Hi sarah! How are you? i am single never married , i am 30 years old and looking for life partner… any serious lady contact me no matter of age or being divorced or being widowed or being single mother… Age is nothing but number!!!! study after study for hundreds of years show that men look on the outside — initially and women look for money.
So both men and women are superficial. Really Sarah!?! Men consider the outside and women look at size of the wallet. Signed up to a dating site- guy kept asking tell me about yourself.
I did. Divorced twice. I picked men that were wrong for me. My fault but as soon as I shared poof! Men are gone. I am fit,attractive, employed,debt free, own my home, and am making it despite no child support.
I have 2 great teens that will soon be gone. I am a stable person that was desperate for a family and married for that. No one will touch me. I figure if God wants me in a relationship he will plant a man in front of me. I just wish my life had turned out differently. In my experience, when middle age women say that they are fit and attractive, they look for the same in men. We are talking about people over 50, whose bodies are way different than they were 20 years ago.
When women say that they are fit and attractive but they are not looking for the same in men, they still send the same message. There is nothing wrong with looking for the best fit and attractive guys but with age the odds are getting drastically smaller for you. In this age group, I see way more overweight women than men and this is very unattractive. Most or maybe all who chat me up look like guys, seriously. Young women tend to be much slimmer, sex with them is on a totally different level.
Plus they like or at least are not afraid of showing their bodies. After that comes personality, but this is another subject. Really guy? Please refrain from your arrogance about looks..
you probably look at porn because no younger woman wants an old man marathon runner or not. Get over yourself. Check yourself before you wreck yourself Seymour Heiny. Did you give your self that name because you are sugar-coating what you see when you look in the mirror? Have you ever heard of grammer check? Or maybe you should consider going back to adult school for a high school diploma. It is hard to even consider you as an adult! Christian servant. Not out there. And then there's the challenge of finding someone who will accept and even participate with your children.
Even if you and your dating partners aren't divorced or widowed and don't have children, everyone likely has plenty of relationship experience by the time they hit And whether you call that baggage a word loaded with negativity or just plain experience , these past relationships impact the realities of dating later in life. However, bonding over your baggage is never a good way to start a new relationship," Coulston says. Dating in your 20s was about just plain fun. But dating in your 50s can mean juggling romance with the responsibilities of caring for children, or parents, or maybe even both.
Your 50s is "the sandwich time between kids and aging parents," says Saltz. These all impact the emotional energy left over for a relationship. When you're younger, compromise is an ingrained part of daily life as you grow and evolve. But "by your 50s, you have some set patterns of behaving and feeling, some set values, goals, ideas about how your life should go, and it can make you less flexible to accommodating someone else," Saltz says.
You will not be growing up together, you will be grown up and trying to fit with someone—finding someone who fits is more challenging. You might have felt less resistance in your younger years to adopting someone else's way of doing things—because your own weren't so firmly set in stone.
These days, you might have a few high-quality friends, rather than a whole party bus full of people to expose you to other singles. That reduces both your exposure to the dating pool, and also to an endless supply of wingmen or wingwomen to pump you up. However, when you're in your 50s, the vast majority of your friends are likely married or in serious relationships," says dating expert and writer Kevin Darné.
Remember the etiquette that defined courtship and dating when you started out on the scene? Yeah, those days are long over. Yes, that means conventions of chivalry, courtship—and certainly factors like technology, too. To that end, the technology piece of dating can deter people over 50 from getting back in the game.
But, he warns, "the person who is unwilling to learn or make adjustments is likely to face more challenges in the dating scene. Whether you feel like you might be the target of an elaborate scam a la a Dateline investigation, or you feel just plain cautious of more run-of-the-mill misrepresentation when online dating, you might fear becoming a target by putting yourself out there.
Considering how many relationships you've experienced by the time you reach your 50s, you might find yourself comparing all new partners to the old ones, and that can be a form of self-sabotage. Unfortunately, this negative perspective tends to just draw in the same type of people they want to avoid, while scaring off the people who would be perfect for them.
That was important groundwork. Slowly I became confident enough to think about sharing myself with someone else. I opened up my heart to friendship and love again. I will admit, though, you usually have to bite the bullet and actually have the guts to get out there again.
Be choosy. Do you have the characteristics on that list? Not over your first spouse? Holds a grudge? Look at the whole dating thing as an adventure, as an exploration … even after Have fun! Learn about lots of other people. Learn more about yourself. That will make your dating after 50 more relaxed and fun. Who knows what delightful things might happen? Thank you So Much for this! I am going to be 57 next month.
I have been divorced from my second husband of 20 years, for 6 years now. It was very painful. I dated a whole lot at first, and failed at it miserably. My last dinner date was 2 years ago. I decided to take these last 2 years to figure out what I want and learn to take care myself for a change. Ready to go bu TV I have a major question. I have been told TV hat since there are soooo many single women looking, yo uh have to be pretty aggressive in elbowing out the competition.
Your thoughts and findings? Very curious!!! Thank you! Trust to me is the most important quality to look for. HONESTY otherwise everything in the new relationship is not solid and uncertain. When we are all feeing vunerable as we both been hurt as post divorcees. I am in the vert beginning of finding out my husband of 2 years, together 12, wants a divorce and wants me to move out immediately.
I am scared to death. I am 50 and I wonder if I will ever find someone. During my research of dating advice, I found your website midlifedivorcerecovery. com, and your content is very engaging and high-quality. I also have a bunch of amazing resources that would link up perfectly in a well written, resource-rich, and informative article.
If interested, I could submit some topics to you for review. These topics will fit your audience and their needs. Several things women over 50, even earlier, need to accept, All men do NOT like to see a woman with fake breasts. Fake breasts as she ages look ridiculous. A woman who refuses to accept the act that her weight is a sign of the concern she has for herself, and others, is headed for failure.
A woman who uses makeup with disregard for her true appearance is a FRAUD. I have encountered numerous women who roundly ridicule a man for using a toupee, but will not hesitate to wear a wig or refuse to criticize other women for doing so. Women wear all types of underwear to give a false impression of their physical attributes, again being a FRAUD. Stop thinking you should be entitled to be dating Clark Gable when you look like a haired nancy pelosi covered in a ton of fake skin, etc.
One more point. DO NOT wear clothing that displays your undergarments. In the s, a woman, even girls, would be horrified to know that a portion of her undergarments could be seen.
If another woman noticed,she would step close and whisper to the individual who would quickly retire to a location where the offending garment could be corrected. Today, women and girls appear to take pride in displaying such garments.
Clarke Gable had fake teeth. Just sayin. How about we all allow everyone to dress, adorn, etc as they choose. Your statement is chock full of judgement. May all our hearts grow wider. Thank you for the great article Suzy. I am now 64, was separated for 3 years and then divorced for another 2 years.
I have just started the on-line dating journey. I did join eharmony, but have not been very pleased with this service.
I am a newly divorced single woman over We got married, we had kids, we grew apart. We have been divorced for 2 years and although it saddens me that my family has been broken apart, I am happy that my ex and I have have managed to be civil enough to make it okay for the kids.
What I find most interesting at this point is the whole dating scene. There is such a difference between what is available for men and woman. Here is what I have found:. For single men the options are plentiful. We have all heard about how easy it is for a man to start dating in his fifties and how there are plenty of women to choose from. Their desire to be with men years their senior means they are looking for someone to take care of them both financially and personally.
Be cautious men, these women are looking for you to do it all over again and that means house and children. They are raising small kids and are looking for someone to be a partner. Yes they do want you to help raise their kids and do it all over again. If you have money, well that just makes you more attractive. They know who they are and why their marriage failed and are looking for pure companionship.
Rather they will be someone who will have realistic expectations of you and be accepting of who you are at this time of your life. They will want to grow old with you and have an age appropriate relationship with you. From my experience there are few men who are looking to date their contemporaries.
The thrill and excitement of a younger woman is so compelling. Those rare gems who value women with age and experience are just that — rare! So I will wait and not settle. I am confident that my soul mate is out there. Someone who will appreciate what my age and wisdom brings to the partnership. For all Divorce Support Visit: Divorce Angels. view profile. Feeling good about yourself is really the most important thing, because you are probably going to be alone if you find yourself alone at We can all be positive and optimistic , but psychologists suggest practicing alternative forms of sexuality and some openly advocate partner sharing.
Finding a non-sexual partner seems to be less of a problem, a lot of nice men suffer from erectile dis-function and might welcome an older partner. The most important ties to make after 50 if you are alone, are meaningful friendships.
These need to be nurtured because chances are there will not be a partner to usher you into old age, and community is probably the most important aspect of successful aging. Billy G is correct. I am 62 and i hooked up with an old man friend from the past who is 64 after a few get together s i was curious to see what this old stallion was about at this age AND what a shocker he had a major erectile dysfunction that is not only embarrassing for him but for me as well.
So when women over 60 wonder why its hard to find a man THEY are at a bar drinking. Most men are not interested in seeing a Doctor to get that fixed. I told my man friend to do that and he looked at me like i insulted him. Dude get that fixed if you want to have fun!!
Then you get the men who are in denial with their soft performing noodle. If a man over 60 is not going to perform with a good hard on dont bother! SO the really good looking older men 50 and over with money will pay for Viagra to get a hard manhood and may seek younger women, I am attractive at 62, i like to dress colorful, i color my hair i never had kids and have been single most of my life and i love that independence.
I love my own company and I love to have fun. I still listen to Led Zeppelin and Steely Dan. I am a loner because most of my friends are acting like Grandmas now and i dont have anything in common with them so i have fun traveling alone and meeting people. I go to Vegas alone 4 times a year and have a blast!! Someday i might hook up with a man who is like me and we can grow older together but i dont wish it or look for it life is too short wasting on the next man LOL LOL.
Boy you described me. Een easy. And im pretty with long blonde hair. I did find a guy this year. He knew I have a high sex drive. Said he wanted to be friends first and I bought it. Bottom line he is 58 and so broken Viagra won t work only surgery or a pump. He hide this and his tiny tiny tiny penis from me knowing all the while his secret and leading me on telling me about the great sex life we were going to have.
I feel like goldilocks. Where is the happy medium lol. I live in Tigard Oregon. You made it very very clear that if a man cannot get hard then he should bother … so if it does work then why would he not go for a much younger, sexier women!?!?
that is just common sense. Lots of interesting responses. I am 58 years old and think that the reason many men seek younger woman is that the perception is that as woman get older they have less interest in sex. For us older men who still have a strong sex drive and good functioning equipment that can be frustrating.
Woman need emotional connection to stay connected. Men need sexual attention to complete the connection. It sounds like several of the ladies on this site have had underperforming men. Just remember Not all older men have this problem. At 58 I go to the gym three days a week , kayak, ski, bike,hike, eat healthy and take care of myself. I am not taking any medications. I am 58 and very horny all the time but not always does it get or stay hard … after 40 ED will periodically happen and older you get the more often … women have the great advantage in that dept as you do not have to be concerned that all will work … your not being very fair.
Cancer, MS or other can happen to anyone incl. you but your not very understanding. Finally , if can get hard, good looking, fit , money any 58 man can get a 42 year old women why would they be interested in you and then being emasculated.
no thanks. Love your post Mae West, love your zest for life. Keep enjoying yourself honey, life is short xxxxx. Thank you for being yourself and giving hope for the rest if us, who are willing to stay themselves despite everything else. Do you teach classes on how to age with dignity? And with that attitude you will probably remain single. Frustrating for me who prefers to be perused but I found by waiting for that they meet someone else.
Is it all about sleeping with men sooner to keep their interest and evolve into something? Would love to hear a guys opinion. I am male and dating In my 5os 54 have no sexual dysfunction and am as my female friends say a good catch.
But even though I am trying to date may own age group they all seem to be very intent on having a man who doesnt need sex. One of my women friends told me they need a connection.
after 5 dates and questions, all boxes ticked she still didnt have a connection…….. I wonder why. My last relationship was with someone for 17 years who died after a terminal illness. She was 8 years older than me. We had an LAT relationship and it worked very well. Fantastic sex and we never argued. It seems that this is still the way forward for me. I want to spend time with a companion, having fun and enjoying ourselves.
Laughter, loyalty and honesty are a must! Where do I go to meet people? Is everything online now? David Dods is nasty. If he is looking for a woman for sex, he needs to specify in his profile, so the requirement is made clear. Men may not be able to function, and women may not want to function. So if personality is not the main thing in a relationship, the conversation needs to be had, before deciding how the relationship should develop.
First, try spending time as companions, go to different situations together and see how compatible you are in that way. What does it mean? What do the men with soft members expect the women to do about it?
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If you lose your money these girls will disappear. Really guy? This is my perspective. Most men are not interested in seeing a Doctor to get that fixed. Mostly looking for a friendship that may turn into more. Hi Kitty, Thank you for your refreshing and candid comments.Men consider the outside and women look at size of the wallet. If not a dating site…then how do people like us meet? I AM the exception. Relatable is their reason. I am praying that developing myself and my other healthy relationships will be attractive enough. Jim You are a nasty dating online at 50 poor success who no woman worth anything would want. Thanks for posting this, Linda.